The Other Woman...

Image Credit:  Ruby Wives (follow them on Facebook @ https://www.facebook.com/RubyWives2011/)

For those who have gone through this or who are going through this, you have touched my heart and this too has touched my life.  I wanted to share this with you.  You are the winner, you are a far better person and you need to know.  Your character is not stained and forever marked.  Even though they try and blame you, you did nothing wrong to warrant their choices.  Enough said.  

 

"I've let go -let go of her...the other woman. The one he cheated with. The one who stole from our marriage. The one I felt I needed to compare myself to ...and then I realized she couldn't a hold a candle to me even if she wanted to. She lowered herself to be with him. I am higher than that and it's okay. I've let go of the anger and unforgiveness; and I realize that she must not value herself to be involved with another woman's husband, so I pray for her. I Pray that she will realize her mistakes; that she's been fooled. When she thought she won, she actually lost. She lost her dignity, she lost her values, and she threw herself away for something that wasn't hers to begin with. I pray she finds real love, forgiveness and healing. Even though I went through a lot, I'm strong, I'm beautiful, and I am loved. Stealing, cheating, lying, hiding, and commiting adultery -these things aren't love. I wouldn't want to be her for even a moment. ~ Ruby Wives, Copyright 2012"